I’M A DESCENDANT OF THE MIDDLE FINGER
My Journey to Finding Confidence
A candid and inspiring look at overcoming self-doubt, embracing individuality, and building confidence on your own terms.
“For anyone who has ever doubted themselves, felt overlooked, or wondered if they were enough, this book is your reminder that confidence starts with being unapologetically YOU.” - Jeff Lipson
Confidence Starts With Being Yourself
DEFINE YOUR PATH.
OWN YOUR CONFIDENCE.
CREATE YOUR SUCCESS.
The title may raise a few eyebrows — and that's exactly the point.
I'm a Descendant of the Middle Finger isn't about rebellion for the sake of rebellion. It's about learning to stop letting other people define who you are, what you should become, or how success should look in your life.
Throughout his life, Bart Greenberger often found himself taking a different path than expected. Sometimes that path led to success. Sometimes, he was humbled, but he never forgot the lessons. But every step helped him discover a simple truth: confidence doesn't come from fitting in—it comes from embracing who you are.
Through personal stories, humor, business experiences, and lessons learned over a lifetime, Bart shares his journey toward finding confidence, defining his own path, and creating success on his own terms.
If you've ever doubted yourself, felt overlooked, or wondered whether you were enough, this book is a reminder that your greatest strength may be the very thing that makes you different.
AUTHOR • SPEAKER • BUSINESS COACH
Meet Bart Greenberger
Bart Greenberger is an author, business coach, speaker, and lifelong learner who believes confidence is one of the most important ingredients for success—both in business and in life.
For more than 25 years, Bart has worked with business owners, entrepreneurs, and professionals, helping them navigate challenges, discover opportunities, and build businesses that reflect their goals and values. Along the way, he learned lessons that couldn't be found in textbooks—lessons about resilience, self-belief, leadership, and finding your own path.
Those experiences inspired his first book, I'm A Descendant of the Middle Finger: My Journey to Finding Confidence. Through personal stories, humor, and hard-earned wisdom, Bart shares the journey that helped shape his outlook on confidence, success, and staying true to yourself.
When he's not writing, coaching, or speaking, Bart enjoys spending time with his wife, family, and their four-legged companion, Princess Blueberry. A former baseball umpire and football official, he now calls Chattanooga, Tennessee home, where he continues helping others define their path, own their confidence, and create their success.
Beyond the Book
The lessons shared in I'm A Descendant of the Middle Finger didn't come from a textbook. They were shaped by decades of experience helping business owners, leaders, and individuals navigate challenges, discover opportunities, and build confidence in themselves and their future.
Through Perception Is Reality, Bart continues that mission through coaching, consulting, and speaking engagements.
What People Are Saying
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“For anyone who has ever doubted themselves, felt overlooked, or wondered if they were enough, this book is your reminder that confidence starts with being unapologetically YOU.
Part life coach, part storyteller, part motivational friend — Bart Greenberger delivers a powerful reminder that being different may be your greatest strength.”
-Jeff Lipson, Entrepreneur
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“I recommended this book to my 16-year-old daughter, but I had to tell her to ignore all the highlighted parts. There were so many great points throughout the book that I didn't want to forget any of them. It gives you a lot to think about and plenty of practical takeaways you can actually use. Definitely worth the read.”
Michelle Luksander, MiLo Marketing
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“This is one of the easiest, most entertaining, and educational books I’ve ever read. Bart’s engaging writing style allows his personality to shine through with every lesson. Filled with great stories, simple yet powerful insights, and countless opportunities for growth, this book offers quick, practical lessons that can improve both your work and personal life. This is a must-read for anyone looking to grow, improve, and enjoy their journey.”
-Gregg Jost, media sales rep
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“I enjoy books that stimulate my thoughts and Bart had me reflecting and pondering throughout this journey.”
- Gary Hudson, engineer and retired entrepreneur
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“I'm a Descendant of the Middle Finger will make you think about what is truly important in your life and will help you find a path to achieving your goals.”
- John Weber, Middle School Teacher
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“Bart’s teachings completely changed the trajectory of my life. One quote that has always stayed with me is, “If you don’t have a roadmap, how do you know where you’re going?” and I’ve carried that mindset throughout my professional journey.“
“Through his mentorship, I learned the importance of setting clear goals, believing in myself and my vision, and pursuing life with purpose. His guidance gave me the confidence to follow my dreams, become a business owner, leave my 9-to-5, and build a career and life that feels truly fulfilling.”
-Lou Rivera
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"Good morning, Bart! I started your book this morning and it is so hard to put it down! WOW! I did have to take a break to run and get a highlighter though. I don't know how much highlighting is too much but it probably past that point. I'm so glad you wrote this book, thank you!"
- Kya Groves - Front Porch Senior Advisors
Ready to Begin Your Own Journey?
A candid and inspiring journey of confidence, growth, and finding your own path.
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